For a long time, I thought a good conversation meant always knowing the right to say. Often, as seeking to tell people myself, the same anecdotes or attempts to give advice. But the older I can get, the more I know that more connection comes from a little talk. Instead of being forced to fill in silence, I know that Asking the deep questions creates space for others to see.
In the past year, I moved to a new city and met many new people. If I knew I had gathered acquaintances instead of forgetting the relationships, I started to evaluate my conversations. While they are alive and entertainment (for the most part – you can’t click all), I know we come from the subject of the subject than deeper. To resolve that, I noticed that asking to be thoughtful, open questions can be a little talk to something more meaningful. And always, it’s just a good question to open the door.
So, if you want to feel closer to someone – at work, among the acquaintances, a week to go to the weekend with friends – this list is for you. This 75 icebreaker questions intended to help the actual connection with each type of situation.
Part of the image from our Desert dinner in the desert with the cliff valley in the valley, alison carroll.

Using questions to make a deep connection
Everyone talks about the epidemic of loneliness. It feels like that, despite many opportunities to connect than before, we are more likely to discover from the people around us. Why do so many of us participate in clubs, finding hobbies, or trading social media for Subsende. In my experience, that’s not that people don’t want to go over the polite little talk. That’s all that many of us don’t know how.
But if it’s the time for Water Interview at work or asking your Friends How are they certainly Doing, asking the right questions can take a long time. From deep, personal questions to enjoy experiments, here are 75 questions that may deepen your relationships.
At work
- What do you expect this weekend?
- What is your favorite thing to do on the weekend?
- What do you like best at work?
- Do you think about trying a different career before it?
- What do you like at school?
- What do you feel fulfilled?
- What is your favorite way to block?
- What are some words you live in?
- What’s the biggest risk you’ve ever got?
- What is important that you know during your career?
- What’s something that you most proudly do?
- If you could have any talent, what would you choose?
- If you need a character from a book, who are you?
- If you live somewhere, where do you go?
- When do you feel the best?
With new friends
- What is your most innovative guilty of happiness?
- Where is the most beautiful place you left?
- Tell me about a formal “core memory.”
- What is something you think now?
- Who inspired you?
- Where is your dream vacation?
- Have you read / see any newly changed your sight of something?
- Do you have any siblings? If so, what do you want as children?
- What decisions did you make with your early twenties that you are doing well?
- What’s the best live show / concert you’ve ever had?
- What do you think of all the time?
- What does your best self look like?
- What is one thing you don’t sell for all the money in the world?
- What is your favorite thing about this city? What is your most expensive?
- What is the best piece of advice that someone has given you?
With family
- If you could just listen to a song for the rest of your life, what is it?
- What character from a TV / movie show reminds me of me?
- If you could eat anyone, who is it?
- What is your wild, most impractical dream?
- What is your favorite time, and what does it remind you?
- What is your favorite holiday?
- Describe your perfect meal-breakfast day, lunch, and dinner.
- What do you know just new you can’t stop thinking?
- What is one thing you want to know?
- What is missing in your life today?
- What is the number one thing on your bucket list?
- What / who do you want to have a lot of time?
- What is a habit you want to do and someone you want to break?
- What do you enjoy?
- In one year, who do you like? In five? Ten?
For the essential others
- Do you have a favorite childhood memory?
- What think people do about you?
- What is one thing you tried to act today?
- What’s something you’re proud of?
- What is your dream job as a child?
- What does one day look like in your life dream?
- What does our relationship reveal about yourself?
- What’s the last thing you’ve ever been making?
- How have you changed since you were a child?
- What do you want people to remember?
- Is there any of your beliefs to evolve over time?
- How was your childhood form of who are you?
- What’s something you love?
- What do you tell your younger self?
- What is the most significant relationship you have ever had?
With close friends
- What do you think is recent?
- What do you think (enter the current show, movie, book)?
- Have you ever read anything interesting today?
- What do you mean by making time?
- Do you feel like you’re at a planting season or a blooming time now?
- When do you feel the most cherished recently?
- How do you think you have changed since this time last year?
- Tell me about the memory associated with a picture of the suggested pictures of your phone.
- What do you need now, emotionally, without you?
- What’s the best thing you’ve added to your custom?
- When was the last time you laughed at your stomach hurt?
- If you could be anywhere now, where are you?
- What do you do with an extra day of the week?
- Where did you get your energy from these days?
- How can I show better for you today?